Again thanks to the amazing Laura from AlltheshoesIwear for nominating me. Be sure to check out her blog.
My quotes for today are:
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
~ Erica Jong
Live with no excuses and love with no regrets
The be-all and end-all of life should not be to get rich, but to enrich the world.
~B. C. Forbes
Thanks for reading.
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I was nominated by Laura for the 3 quote a day for 3 days challenge. If you haven’t please go visit her amazing site Alltheshoesiwear. Laura is a prolific blogger who blogs about everything and it is always a joy a read her posts.
These are my quotes:
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. Oscar Wilde
In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on. Robert Frost
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. Mae West
My nominees are:
3- Soul gifts
Hi again. Special thank you to Nash Christmas who blogs about all sorts of interesting subjects. Please visit this site and see what I’m talking about!
The Liebster award is an internet award where you are nominated by other bloggers who consider your blog interesting.
Rules for this award:
1.Create a new post thanking the person who nominated you, link to their blog.
2.Include award graphic.
3.Answer the questions provided.
4.Make a new set of 11 questions for your nominees to answer.
5.Nominate 5-11 others and share your post with them so they see it.
Answers for Nash:
1.If you close your eyes and say the word “Happiness,” what is the first thing that pops into your mind ?
2.If you were to eat one thing only for the rest of your life, what would it be ?
– salad- I know I’m weird
3.What do you consider to be your best feature and why ?
– I am very kind
4.Name one thing that someone said you could not do yet you did it ?
– become a doctor
5.Does your family have a weird or funny nickname for you ?
6. Are you a follower or a leader?
– definitely a leader.
7.What do you value more in other people?
-Honesty and loyalty.
8.What is the craziest dare you ever did?
– parasailing- I can’t swim
9.Have you ever picked your nose while driving ?
– of course
10.What/who would you die for ?
11.Have you ever used or been told a pickup line and what is it ?
– this was used on me: “your eyes are like a crystal ball, I can see my future with you.”
And my nominees are:
3. Eliza Rudolf
4. Laura Bailey
Questions for my nominees:
1- Do you prefer the desert or ocean?
2- What is your favorite city in the world?
3- What is your favorite meal?
3- Online shopping or mall shopping?
4- Favorite movie?
5- Dogs or cats?
6- What is your best form of relaxation?
7- Why do you blog?
8- Are you a morning or night person?
9- Do you like rollercoasters?
10- Do you prefer tea or coffee?
11- What is your dream car?
Congrats to all the nominees. Keep up the wonderful blogging!
And thanks for all the follows and support.
Hi all, I was so excited to receive this nomination for the mystery blogger award from personalgrowthsuccessblog. Please visit her site and check out her inspirational posts. It took me a while to acknowledge this amazing award since I’m still new to blogging and trying to figure out everything. I am truly honored
What is the mystery blogger award?
“Its an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there and they deserve every recognition they get. This award is also for bloggers who find fun and inspiration in blogging and they do it with so much love and passion.”Created by Okoto Enigma
* Put the award logo/image on your blog and list the rules
* Thank whoever nominated you and provide a link to their blog
* Mention the creator of the award and provide a link as well
* Tell your readers 3 things about yourself
* You have to nominate 10-20 people
* Notify your nominees by commenting on their blog
* Ask your nominees any 5 questions of your choice
* Share a link to your best post
3 THINGS ABOUT ME:
1. I love to run and have done many half marathons with a goal of running a full someday 2. I love to travel – just about anywhere
3. Family time is very important to me
5 QUESTIONS FOR MY NOMINEES:
1. If you could go anywhere, where would you go?
2. If you could be anyone, who would you be?
3. What inspires you?
4. What is your guilty pleasure?
5. Do you sing?
It was so hard getting this list together. But these are some awesome bloggers that I have come to look forward to their posts. Please show them some love and visit their sites. Again thanks for the nomination
There are a few things that drive me absolutely crazy and people not responding to texts, emails, phone calls are at the top of my list this week. Telemarketers and people on your do not call list not included – it is always okay to hang up on or not respond to their messages. Today in 2018, there are so many modes of communication, yet some people either don’t or won’t respond. I actually think its rude and absolutely bad manners. I know our parents taught us better.
This is my list of acceptable reasons to not respond to a message
1- You just lost all your fingers in a fourth of July fireworks explosion. Random? This actually happens a lot- ask any trauma surgeon.
2- Your cell phone, computer and land line phone have all been lost or confiscated by the FBI, CIA, ISIS, KGB? Or distroyed in above explosion. Could happen I guess
3- You are the leader of the free world and in the middle of a state of the union address or press conference or threat of war with North Korea. This is a weak excuse as even The Donald finds time to tweet at night
4- You are a cardiac or brain surgeon and literally holding these important organs in your hands. Okay I will accept any type of doctor so long as you are in the middle of saving a life.
5- You are on a plane with no wifi. Kinda rare today. But I expect a call back as soon as you land
6- You are anywhere with no wifi or reception. A cave. Mars. Under a rock. Yet I just saw a Facebook and/or instagram post from you – ummm?
7- You are in the hospital. Acceptable only if you are there as a patient and only if you are in a coma or hooked up to a ventilator
8- You are dead. This is the only real acceptable reason. Caution- don’t do this to prove a point!!!
Any other reason is totally frivolous, unacceptable and just plain rude!
And just so you know, I’m not a total Diva. I do not need an immediate response. If I send a message during normal business hours, then I expect a response that day- within 3-6 hours I think is acceptable. If I send a message after 9pm, then it is reasonable to expect a response the next day as some people go to sleep early. And I do not need a long drawn out response. A response could be a simple “sorry can’t talk now, catch up later” or “I’m fine talk later” or just a simple answer to a question that was posed in the message. Apple makes it so easy where you can send a thumbs up/down, love, laugh, exclaim or question response to a text message- you just press the icon- 2 seconds tops.
When you don’t respond, my assumption is that you either have no respect for me or you could care less why I called or you believe you are so much more important than I am. It all boils down to simple etiquette which will lead to your loosing friends or if in business situation, you could definitely loose clients.
Imagine someone standing in front of you talking and you just stare at them without saying anything – wierd and rude right?
So next time, a message comes in, please do look at it and respond. Consider the feelings of the person on the other side.
Does this bother you as much as it bothers me?
Do you agree with my list?
Do you have other acceptable reasons that I missed?
Please leave your comments below.
Please tell me that I am not alone in this.
Do you make lists for everything?
Everyone I know tells me that I am the most organized person they know. And I pride myself in my ability to be organized and multitask and get more done in a day than most people can in a week. I am pretty obsessed with getting things done, so much so that some may consider it pathologic. I just call it a way of life. Okay fine, I’m a little bit anal retentive- Type A if you will.
For me, the biggest stress in life is being disorganized, not having a plan or having gaps of time when nothing is happening. I hate that feeling and I never want to feel stressed out. This is not to say that I don’t like free time lounging like the next person. It’s just that most of my lounging time is scheduled unless I’m on vacation then the lists go out the window.
First I have a master list where I write down my long term goals. Be a better person, loose some weight, career goals, run a marathon etc
Then I start each day with a daily list.
What do I need to accomplish for the day? This list basically takes me through hour by hour from waking to sleeping, what I need to get done for the day. So this list may look something like this and will change from day to day.
This is a sample daily list for the purpose of this blog only.
Then within the main daily list there will be sublists
For instance within my work day I may need to call and schedule an appointment with the dentist or return a phone call or email. If grocery shopping is on my list for the day, then I need a list for the items to buy from the grocery store. If I have a dinner party, I have a list of guests and a list for the menu and one for all the things I need to do to prepare for it, like get hair done, nails, clean house etc.
I have a birthday gift list for family and friends
I have a vacation travel list
I have a list for books I want to read
I start my Christmas gift list in the summer
I have a calender list for major upcoming events
I have a list for my lists- no joke. I make my lists on paper, on my phone, my laptop, wherever I can write something down. I have about 4 different list making apps on my phone. I know it all sounds crazy, but trust me it works. This list making is certainly not for the faint of heart. But the more you do it, the more it becomes second nature. They say it takes about 2 weeks of doing something repetitively (every day) for it to become a habit.
The last thing I do before I go to sleep, is look at my list one last time and see what I was able to get done for that day.
To me, there is no greater sense of accomplishment than to cross items off the to do list. If you find that you could not complete all your tasks for the day, there is nothing wrong with moving it on the next day’s list.
This I find is the best way to get things done and not procrastinate.
Who’s with me?
What lists do you make?
I would love to see your comments below.
One of my favorite sunsets…
Photo taken in the Dubai Desert
There is so much to do and so little time. Do you feel like you are constantly trying to catch up. Trying to squeeze way too much into 24 hours. That’s how I feel. This is so much worse when you are a mom, a wife or have to work.
When you have to balance getting kids to and from school, their various after school sporting and social activities, making a nutritious dinner, making time for your spouse and still handling your business at work, there is very little time left over for things like reading and exercise. I’ve learned over the years the art of squeezing in these things without making it look like I am. Essentially I have mastered the art of multitasking.
I will share how I incorporate reading and exercise into my daily schedule.
I am a lover of all things books. A few years ago I found that I was not reading like I used to. How can I manage all the aspects of my life and still find time to read. I found out about audiobooks back then but really resisted the idea of them. As a self proclaimed bibliophile I turned up my nose at people who listened to books on tape. What? No actual paper? No turning the pages? No curling up in a corner with a good book?
Well I finally had to give in and go to the dark side and you know what? It’s been the best thing ever.
I can now listen to my books while cooking, cleaning, walking or driving.
Try it. It will change your life.
The second trick I will share is that of making time to exercise. As we know exercise is important for heath maintenance and disease prevention not to mention help us look good in those swimsuits- summer’s coming folks!
With all I have going on making time to exercise is the last thing to make it on the list. But let me ask you this. Do you have a favorite show that you DVR and try to catch up with every night? What about the evening news? One of the late night talk shows? Well if you have an hour to spare watching TV you definitely have time to exercise.
All you need to do is park your treadmill or stationary bike in front of the TV. You would be surprised how many miles you get through by the end of your show.
And if you have spare time you can listen to your audiobook while exercising.
This my friends is multitasking or killing two birds with one stone.
How do you incorporate reading and exercise into your daily life?
Please share your thoughts and suggestions.
A patient said to me today as we were discussing her cancer diagnosis – “I can only control the quality of my life not the quantity…”
Wow! How true! How profound!
This got me thinking. We all live on borrowed time and no one knows what’s coming. We could get hit by a bus on the way home. We could be diagnosed with a fatal illness. Our lives are so fragile and tenuous yet a lot of us take it for granted. We spend so much time obsessing over things that are not important.
If you died right now, what would your legacy be? What would be said about you? Have you lead your best life? Have you led a quality life?
What are the ways we could improve the quality of our life right now. These are 10 of my suggestions
1-Take care of your body. Remember this body will last you for as long as you are here, so take care of it.
2-Be friendly and Love unconditionally. It takes so much energy to hate and to frown. Smile and spread the joy.
*hug your kids/spouse
*tell your family you love them often
*smile and say hi to the neighbors, co workers
3-Be a good friend. Call and catch up with friends from time to time
4-Do something nice for someone less fortunate. We are all in this together. You may be the one who needs help some day.
*make a donation
5-Don’t over commit. It’s okay to say no from time to time. Stress does not look good on anyone
6-Don’t leave things half done. You are better off not starting than doing it half assed
7-Don’t procrastinate. You may not get another chance
8-Do something nice for yourself. When you feel good, it’s so much easier to make everyone else feel good.
*get a massage
*take a trip
*watch a movie
*read a book
9- Believe in something. I really don’t want to talk religion but a belief in something, someone will get us through the darkest times.
10-Be an overall good person. I don’t care what God you believe in but the 10 commandments pretty much cover the basics of being a good person.
If you can do these things, I believe that you are well on the way to having a great quality of life and it may even help with the quantity.
What did I miss?
Please let me know other ways to improve the quality of our lives in the comments.